Monday, 1 February 2016

A JOURNEY OF THOUSANDS MILES! by Siddharth Paramhans


Our daughter Shagun Vashney (we call her Tanu), was stated to graduate with a Masters in Management degree from London School of Economics(LSE), London on 14th December, 2015. She had long-desired that all of us (her family) be present when she’s honoured with her degree. And why not? She had worked very hard to achieve this goal. She is one among a few recipients of British Government’s scholarship and had also been an ambassador for LSE. The plan to attend the ceremony was finally made, and all four of us, my wife Meera, son Sarang, our daughter Shagun, and myself, planned our itinerary for travelling to Europe(London –Paris – Rome). We organised the visa for UK & Schengen, and with all necessary preparations done, time had come when we set on this journey of a thousand miles with family.

First Stop at London
13 Dec 2015, Sunday, 1st Day
 
Landed at famous and busy Heathrow airport at London on 13th Dec’15 in early morning. My daughter had left a day earlier so she could finish local preparations and come to receive us at airport. Heathrow is one of the most organized & busiest international airports. Efficiency and service level of almost all staff was worth admiring - we cleared immigration formalities in under 15 minutes and came out at Terminal-4 where we were greeted by Shagun. One can immediately sense good air quality, cozy weather and a real nice feeling of warmth after arriving in London. A cup of hot coffee at Costa refreshed us, and all the tiredness coming from a 10hr flight vanished in no time while relaxing at CafĂ© with family.

We were to reach at Devons road where we had booked an apartment for our stay at London through AirBnB.  Going by the London Tube was the best option – local trains are called as Tube in London, and provide the best connectivity and are the fastest mode for travel in London city. Heathrow is a little outside London but it connects well with the Tube. We took our first tube running on the Piccadilly line headed for Green Park station, and from there changed lines to reach Canary wharf. Here we changed tracks to get on DLR to reach Devons road - the place of our stay. DLR is a new transport system in London created for short distance connectivity.


The entire journey was quite exciting. One can see organized suburbs, tidy roads and well managed traffic all through the day. Canary Wharf is the global financial hub of London and has head offices of some of the largest finance and consulting companies including – JPMorgan, Charles Swab, HSBC, Accenture, Thomson Reuters etc. Think of a large company and you will find their name etched on a tall glass building around you. You start dreaming of having an office at one such place.


                          With my Sarang and Shagun




It was drizzling lightly, and after enough tube changes and a little walk we finally managed to reach to our apartment at Devons road. The apartment was very cozy, well equipped, and functional. Everything that one can think (however big or small) for good living was available in the apartment. A fully equipped kitchen, along with a local grocery store nearby gave us a feeling that we were at our own house.

We all were bit tired by now, so we rested for a couple of hours at home, only to leave in the evening for Oxford street. Oxford Street is London’s most famous commercial street, dazzling with top brands. The city was amazingly lit especially since it was near Christmas. Every road crossing was glittering, shops were decorated and a kind of happiness and celebration echoed all around. People around were calm, helping, and had high civic awareness so as to say were formal as well. One can see respect for others and respect for following civic rules – certainly these are very much required back at home in India. At Oxford Street, we visited a local cafe “La Pain’ and had a relaxing time, we had soup, coffee, local snacks - roasted potatoes, and some red wine. Later, we walked to an Indian restaurant named Kathi Role Co. near Oxford Street – this is made to look like a rusty Indian street but served great kathi rolls and is a popular Indian joint in London. It was quite late by the time we finished dinner, we were tired from a whole day’s travelling, and so my son suggested we get an Uber. In 5 minutes, a shiny black Mercedes Benz arrived and we were back at our apartment soon.


Now that I recall, I realize we would have walked close to 14km on our first day in London. I don’t know how this was possible as back in India a normal 3-4km walk in a day looks quite difficult.


Important Day for Shagun
14 Dec 2015, Monday, London, 2nd Day 

Today was a big day for Shagun. She was very happy and excited for her graduation ceremony at LSE, London. She got a special robe for the occasion - a purple and black gown along with a ceremonial hat– which were specially designed by the royal tailor of Queen Elizabeth. Shagun was to receive the award from the LSE Dean in the presence of all her professors, fellow students and family members as well as distinguished people present. Special passes and seats were allocated for 3 of us in the Peacock theater, and we reached well in time for the event. The atmosphere at LSE was amplifying with high levels of energy & was fueled with passion and positivity from students and everyone alike. Shagun soon left us to prepare for the ceremony, and we walked to our seats.

                 
At LSE with Meera, Sarang & Shagun

In the crowd of students, teachers and parents it became difficult to find Shagun, our daughter. While we were searching for her we spotted her in the crowd, she was coming towards us. Wow! She looked very pretty in a ceremonial dress, and both me and Meera, my wife, could not help staring at her for long. These were exciting moments, thinking of her as how she had grown up from a small naughty girl to where she was today – getting her post graduate degree in management from the most prestigious school LSE. These were very proud moments. She showed us the way to the auditorium and then again disappeared with her other student friends. She was attending to, meeting with her colleagues and teachers. The students were seated separately in a large hall.

The Chairman opened up the session, and thereafter Director of LSE gave his opening speech and a short presentation on LSE activities and the stories of  LSE alums – It was great to learn that person like Sir David Attenborough, Director of BBC; Cherie Blair, the wife of former British Prime Minister Tony Blair; Kaushik Basu, the Senior Vice President and Chief Economist at the World Bank; American President John Fitzgerald Kennedy; Benazir Bhutto, ex-premier of Pakistan – all of them and many Nobel laureates had passed out from LSE. Students were called on stage, and were presented & greeted by the director of LSE.

                    
Glittering Ceremony at LSE

We were waiting for Shagun’s turn, as there was a long group of students who were receiving the awards. Finally, I could see her in the hall and she was waiting for her turn. Her name was announced and she walked on the stage to receive her award from the director of LSE. The hall cheered with deafening claps from the audience and her classmates. I noticed her high level of confidence and humility when she shook hands with the director. She waved her hand to the audience, to her friends, acknowledging her gratitude for the support they had given her, and thanking LSE for giving her the opportunity to reach at this level and achieving her goals. Life paused for some moments for us and filled us with overwhelming emotions.

                                   
Shagun at LSE

The award ceremony was over and everyone was invited for an evening of socializing with all present there. Shagun introduced us to her professors and course Dean, Dr. Britney Jones. She was very appreciating of Shagun and spent a good time with us talking about Shagun’s achievements and her forthcoming visit to India. Most of her teachers and classmates that we interacted with had very strong backgrounds and it was honour for us to talk and interact with them over a glass of champagne. We met many parents from different parts across the world, having very strong views of LSE. We were also introduced to Sandy Pepper, her course director, and he had a high level of respect for Shagun. One can see an entirely different atmosphere and is transported to one’s olden days when we were students.
         
                                                      Precious moments at LSE

                       

Shagun took us on a tour of the other administrative blocks, her class room, and the library. LSE has one the oldest and biggest libraries and the facility is open for 24 hours and is classic architecture in itself. Having spent reasonable time, we left LSE to have our dinner at famous Indian restaurant ‘Dishoom’ – which offers great authentic Indian food. I was told that Londoners also love this restaurant and it is difficult to get a table at the restaurant if not booked in advance. It was one hour of waiting for us but it felt worth spending for good Indian food in London. Having a very fulfilling day we returned back to our apartment and our key purpose of coming to London was happily met.


To be continued………

Saturday, 20 June 2015

Indian man at 75 # Real India


Met recently,  Nathu the 75 years oldman, Blacksmith (LOHAR). Happened to meet him while I was at Ajmer(Rajasthan) for my work. What has attracted me to see him working in most adverse condition at such an old age. Nathu was working in open  in scorching summer with temperature soaring above  40 degree Celsius at road side, additional heat is generated due to pumping fire to heat IRON, adding further difficulty level. 



Out of my inquisitiveness I decided to spend some time at road side with Nathu who works daily 8-10 hours, and tirelessly he has been doing this for over 50 years. I found him happy, very positive for life and fresh & full of energy!!  Nathu feels that he is contributing to society by making iron tools for many daily wages laborers who depends on these tools for their daily livelihood and with this he also earns 80-100 rupees adequate for his living. 

He was very kind to narrate his story that he learned blacksmith work from his father and their  forefathers at one time were engaged in making swords and other weapons for Rajput Kings of Rajasthan, India. After they were defeated by Mugals their community decided to stop making weapons and switched to making utensils or tools for farmers and other daily workmen. The art of Lohar has been gradually declining as new generation is not much taking this forward. 
 


But he candidly felt given an opportunity can create any material from Iron and was very confident of his art and even teach others. I was very pleased to meet such a sincere hardworking, non complaining person who works so passionately at this age and very positive towards his life with full of energy. 

Nathu is a real hero! 

This is #incredible India. 

20 Jun 15 

Sunday, 24 May 2015

Trip to Gangtok & Darjeeling


18th May to 23rd May 2015 By Siddharth Paramhans

It was for long we were planning to travel to Gangtok & Darjeeling. Finally, we could take out time, both Meera my wife & I travelled extensively to know these places. Sharing some of our experiences.

18th May 2015, we took flight to Bagdogra to reach Gangatok first. At Bagdogra after inquiring further travel routes and arrangements we took a Cab for Gangtok. Just as you leave airport you see some of the tea gardens which tempt you to stop and see them closely. Overall hill track with beautiful scenic pleasure seeing Teesta River flowing continuously you entered the Sikkim border. One can easily make out when the Sikkim starts seeing the alert policemen inquiring for permit for each vehicle that enter in their territory.

By the time we reached Gangtok, it was seven O’clock, & we directly checked-in at hotel Yangthang. Room was very spacious overlooking Kanchenjunga Hills. In the evening freaked out at MG road. Deep 5 minutes of walk to MG road we were just in front of large statue of Mahatma Gandhi. Some cool breeze and good feeling overall. Returned back by a cab, just avoided steep high hill walk to conserve energy.

19th May 2015 at Gangtok had some beautiful photographs from room, & outside hotel. Hired a cab for City tour - visited some of the interesting places
- Namgyal Institute of Tibetology. Some old articles used by various Lamas, old scripts some rare collection sculptures.
- Do-Drul Chorten, Deorali this is a functional monastery with hostel for monks. Temple and prayer room. Saw a rare ritual a puja for departed souls. Meera moved along with the prayer wheels, these prayer wheels are being used by everyone who visit Buddhist temple for chanting their prayer.
-  Next went to experience the Gangtok rope way, its cool 10 minutes ride, a panoramic view of Gangtok city, widespread hills, plants and hill residences.
- Now we moved to Banjhakri Falls stayed there for some time. Cool water with noise coming from up-hills was giving relaxing & pleasant feeling. Had lunch made by a Nepali lady having her Restaurant there - Momos, Choley & Roti with cold drink all served in very personal home style was a moment to remember.
- Next we moved to Flower Garden displaying the hills rare flowers.
- Now was the time to visit Directorate of handlooms and handicraft. At the entrance welcomed by statues of three residents couples Nepali, Bhutia & Lepchas, these three communities are the local residents live peacefully for hundreds of year though Nepali constitute the highest percentage of over 50 percent. The official language is also Nepali in entire Sikkim. This place is a training center for young boys & girls, training them for various arts like painting, wood creative work, Sikkim's handrtloom and handicrafts.  Saw lot of students getting trained to keep their art alive and refining them further. Needless to say making livelihood for them.

- It was next little long drive to go to Hanuman Top hill. A beautiful hanuman temple maintained by the 'Black Cat' commando of Indian army. This is one of the most neatly maintained temple I came across. Wish other temple organization follow them.
- On our way down stayed at Ganesh TOP a temple of Ganeshji and had some snacks with coffee.

It was a hectic day and time to return back to hotel. On our way back we decided to look some other hotels as well and thus moved to Denzong Residency hotel. It was a beautiful boutique hotel with excellent facilities. We decided next day to shift to this hotel. Reached back to Yangthang hotel winded up the day with our dinner.

20th May 2015 Gangtok we shifted to Hotel Denzong residency. Hotel staff gave us very warm welcome and offered a suit room with spacious balcony having beautiful view of Gangtok Valley and Kanchenjunga hills. It was relatively a relaxing day we decided to go around walking to MG road. Gangtok city is one of the cleanest city with much disciplined traffic. Throughout the city you can see walking treks very beautifully done. Most people preferred walking for short distances. While walking you also enjoy seeing the beautiful Valley and natural scenic around.



Taking some photographs, after around 20 minutes of walk we reached to MG road. There are plenty of shops full of China made goods as China boarder is very close not more then 55 KM. Lot of China made goods moves in to India freely. Did some shopping of China pottery, these were the special cups not seen here. It was the time to take lunch and preferred vegetable food at Rasoi veg-restaurant.

Just climbing few steps in a hill-gali (By lane) on MG Road we reached to taxi stand as we wanted to visit few more places today. Taxi stands are being built at various places in Gangtok and taxis are parked under the specially designed stands though these are very congested but workable. We hired a taxi to go to Enchey Monastery. It was 3 Km drive while on the way we decided to go to flower exhibition. That was good photo opportunity to have photographs of so many rare colorful flowers. We then reached to Enchey monastery. This monastery houses young kids and developing them as Lama to preach the Buddhism to people. The kids are groomed with the values of Buda, surely could see very high level of dedication in them.





After spending some time at Enchey Monastery we returned to Hotel Denzong and spend some time in their garden having coffee. It was really a relaxing moment and very pleasant evening. While sitting in Garden happened to meet the owner of the Hotel Mr Thinley Namgyal Densapa. His father was the advisor of The King of Sikkim. He is the nice spoken gentleman with huge property of over 350 acres land in and around Gangtok. He personally oversee the hotel and has been developing it a class hotel.

21st May 2015. Kalimpong /Darjeeling Morning after our breakfast we decided to go to Darjeeling via Klimpong another tourist destination this side. We asked our driver to take us to Klimpong first, it was some very scary hill road with huge Valley below. After around 60 KM of hill ride out of which 18 KM very sharp adventures up hills we reached to Klimpong. Went to a place Dello after passing through few points including a beautiful Hanumanji statute. Dello is on the top of hill overlooking Sikkim hills and is run by Gorkhaland administration council. This place is a beautiful tourist resort was inaugurated by “Subhash Ghiseng then chairman of Gorkhaland administration council. After spending some time and having few photographs we moved to a nursery having very vast varieties of Cactus plants. Seeing some very large flowery Cactus in itself was a unique experience.

From Klimpong it was the time to go to Darjeeling. Passing through beautiful tea gardens around on hills we travelled another 50 KM to reach Darjeeling and checked in the hotel Cedar-Inn. Though the room was a suite it was a smaller room. Asked hotel general manager Sanjay Nangia to change our room for us which he helped us giving us different room which has good space and view as well.

 
22 May 2015 Darjeeling has very pleasant weather and scenic beauty though bit dirty and miss-managed city.  Mall road was near to our h0tel we walked through to Mall road through Nehru road. Seeing some very old time shops of 80-100 years old was again a unique experience. Visited Keventar Restaurant, Das studio all very old joints.  After passing through Mall road we took an electric car to reach Darjeeling Zoo.
- Padmaji Naidu Zoological park is one of the best visited Zoo by us some very rare animals like Yak, Red Panda, tiger, bear etc. were good experience to watch & photograph so closely.
- Visited Himalyan Mountaineering institute (HMI) and saw there museum which houses some of the rare articles used by Tenzing  Norgay the Sherpa who was first to climbed on Mt Everest peak over 8800 ft for the first time along with Hillary.
-  With 15 minutes of walk we reached to Darjeeling  Ropeway and took ticket to experience Darjeeling long 40 minutes Ropeway drive moving over the large tea gardens.
- took a taxi to visit Darjeeling railway station. It's beautiful small toy train railway station which is now in UNESCO heritage list. Seeing the small train still running with coal engine gives you a unique heritage feeling nothing to match other.
 
 
 


- We then decided to go to a tea manufacturing plant Happy Valley. Though we were late but the people over there helped us to get details how the organic tea produced, the processes to make the unique blend of taste & color of Darjeeling tea.  Did some purchasing of special Darjeeling tea and some souvenirs to carry back, one relaxing Buda made of yak bones and a bowl for meditation. Retuned to hotel after walking through Mall road circle, the weather this time around was cool, relaxing and pleasant felt like to continue for some
 

23rd May 2015
Darjeeling to Bagdogra to Delhi; Got news that Spice jet flight which is delayed by 2.30 hours, so had some more relaxing time at Darjeeling to visit Ghoom monastery and Batasha loop. Ghoom railway station for toy train is the highest railway station in world at approx. 7200 Ft. seeing a train passing up at Batasha loop for Ghoom station will always bring cheers to mood, so very relaxing for us as well at the end of our journey back to Delhi.   
 

Sunday, 1 March 2015

my father Dr RK Paramhans ...



 
I often remember my father Dr RK Paramhans and cherish memories that we shared together. He was a living legend, veterinary doctor,social worker, and above all a honest person. His struggle full life, never give-up attitude in any scenario and high level of dedication for family all that are guiding values to all of us. I recall him often saying that there is no right way of doing wrong things is one of my motto in life of continuously working for right purpose.

Where ever you are now, your good principles will keep us lighting our path. Siddharth Paramhans
 
 

Saturday, 31 January 2015

Tree plantation at Gurgaon

Initiated plantation drive to create our park greener. Together with other residents of sector 55 Gurgaon planted over 50 plants. Trust this adds to better living in our area! 




Friday, 30 January 2015

Experience at "GAUSHALA" (a home for cows)



    Recently, visited GAUSHALA (a home for cows) at Vatsalya Gram, Vrindavan along with Meera my wife. Seeing over 200 healthy, well fed cows under a shed was an amazing experience that just can be imagined. Feeding cows along with their caretaker was spiritually uplifting moments of life & feeling blessed!




Sunday, 30 November 2014

Child Labour problem continues to haunt!






Today, I found these two young kids Sunil and Kishan at one of the posh market Cannaught Place, Delhi insisting to allow them to polish shoes. While talking to them I realized they are the sole bread earner of their family. It touched me so much, I guess their age is not more than 9 years and they are forced to sacrifice their childhood in such a pitiable situation.  


While India is one of the fastest growing economies of the world, and an IT giant that we boast always – we have such scenario exists that too many kids are forced to work for livelihood at such a young age, creating India a country with highest number of Child labour in the world.  Instead of having books in their hands they are forced to polish shoes to feed their family members.  Think; is it not the dagger of India’s soul?